Spiritual Rituals:
Spiritual rituals are rituals that serve special religious or spiritual purposes by making their participants feel like they’re doing something spiritually meaningful. Spiritual rituals can serve as social rituals by making the participants feel like they’re working together and engaging in a special activity to serve a special purpose. They are different from social rituals, however, in that they can also be performed alone, and that they have the effect of making the person feel connected to their religion/spirituality in the same way social rituals make individuals feel connected to each other.
To use the example of the marriage from before, it makes the couple, the other participants in the wedding, and the audience feel like they’ve all come together to achieve the same goal and consequently that they all have a connection to each other. In addition, it makes all the participants feel like they’re engaging in an event of special importance— which they are. The same legal effect could be accomplished by the couple going to city hall to sign a marriage license. All the people who would’ve attended the wedding could maybe squeeze into the licensing office to watch the couple officiate their holy matrimony by signing their names to the holy governmental document, so why bother with the wedding? Weddings are a lot of work to plan, after all!
The answer is: The couple has reached an important landmark in their lives by deciding to officiate their partnership as life-long or eternal, and stronger and more important than their relationships to anyone else in the world. To help mark this important occasion and forge this bond which is greater than the power of the people who are forging it, what better force to call upon than the religious/spiritual higher powers the participants follow?
In other words, rather than officiating the marriage with the government by signing a document, the participants are officiating the marriage with a much higher authority than mortal humans. Depending on the people involved in the wedding ritual, they call upon gods, deities, spirits, or whoever else to bear witness to their union. If you’re going to call upon powers like that to bear witness to this decision you and your partner are making, it better be an important decision, and you better be serious about it!
Does that make the marriage ritual more powerful than it would be if the couple had just signed a license at city hall? It does if the participants in the ritual feel like it does. Why would it make them feel that way? Because they feel that the presence of these higher forces they’ve called upon makes the ritual more powerful. Because the people feel like the ritual is more powerful than the city hall marriage would’ve been, they are going to take the marriage more seriously. Because the people take the wedding ritual more seriously, the marriage will be stronger.
Were the powerful spirits really there? Who knows? Does it really matter? The marriage is stronger than it would’ve been otherwise, so whether the spirits were really there or not, the effects their presences were supposed bring about have still been brought about. The objective that everyone was trying to accomplish by calling upon the spirits has been accomplished. Even if the religion of the participants is pure superstition and the spirits they called upon don’t exist within the realm of objective science, the fact that the people believed in the spirits made the marriage stronger, and theoretically that could be measured by objective science. (I’ve never seen or heard of such an experiment, but I’m sure somebody could compare divorce rates to spiritual satisfaction the couple felt with their marriage and the consequent seriousness with which the couple approached the marriage after that or something. I’m sure the science to measure something like that objectively and conclusively doesn’t exist at this point in time, but you get the idea.)









